Showing posts with label consumerism. Show all posts
Showing posts with label consumerism. Show all posts
Monday, March 31, 2014
Sacred Economics
I'm reading the Sacred Economics right now and the timing couldn't be more perfect because I've been feeling very discouraged about our future -- the time will soon come when the planet will no longer be able to support all 7 billion of us. I'm troubled because I am complicit to this system of unfettered growth, exploitation, over consumption and resource depletion. And the only option that seems viable to me right now is to check-out of the system altogether -- homestead and become self-sustaining. But without electricity how could we realistically survive? I have no life skills. I have office skills FFS. I am not resilient either. Nor do I feel that separateness is the solution. So instead I just throw up my arms and resolve to wait for my families eventual demise.
But then I started reading this book and it put forth some solutions that 'could' work. Today's problems were created from growth which is necessary to keep money in circulation. I'm finally beginning to see the problem -- money is created from debt, so that there is always more debt than actual money in circulation. Repayment of debt (principal + interest) means that more goods and services need to be created, regardless if we truly need it. Hense the need for growth. Today we live in a world where everything is for sale. Resources have been sucked dry, chemicals have been pumped into our water and air, people have been exploited .... and yet we are not happier. How ironic is it that more 'goods' don't actually mean more 'goodness'. Externalities, such as the environment, our health, safety and freedom are not built into the cost of anything we consume. Corporates take their profits and everyone else pays for the mess. This book proposes embedding the things we hold sacred into the price of goods and services. For example, the price of strawberries from California would reflect the transportation costs (including road maintenance) to bring them here, the cost of depleting their acquifers and eroding their soil to grow them, and the emissions cost to plant and harvest them such that they would be way more expensive then local produce. Companies would have an economic incentive to not pollute or exploit. We would buy less things because products would be built to last, healthy food would be more affordable than junk food and people everywhere would earn a living wage. Bliss! A carbon tax/cap and trade system is similar, but only looks at one facet. This system would factor in multiple externalities. It sounds complicated to implement, but it's the right thing to do. I believe people want to know the effects of their actions, and want to take responsibility for them. This system simply makes producers pay for what they currently take from 'the commons', thereby contributing to future sustainability. It's kind of like an indirect tax -- you pay for what you take, not for what you earn.
The other concept is of negative interest. Money is the only resource that grows by doing nothing. Everything else decays. The author's example: if I have 12 loaves of bread, I will give you some because I can't possible use it all before it goes stale. If in the future, you have extra loaves, you would most likely give them to me. This is how a gift economy works. But with money, we have a liquidity preference to hold on to more money (hoard) and not share. This book proposes negative interest such that money would lose it's value by holding on to it -- kind of like a depositor's tax. Imagine having to pay to affix postage-style stamps to your money to keep it's value up. You'd want to spend it on what you need and not accumulate what you don't need. This is a huge mind shift from the current system and sadly I can't see it ever taking hold because those with accumulated wealth stand to lose the most. I'm just starting to read the details of such a system and have many qs. For starters, how would the financial system work? The author explains that banks would make money by lending at zero or negative rates which would be less than the rate of depletion (e.g. loans at -5% interest is better than -7% depletion). Borrowing money would not create more money and growth would occur naturally rather than out of necessity (to pay down debt). It's kind of an out-there concept, but one that's starting to make sense for me.
Looking forward to see if other share these ideas and if they have any hope of becoming a reality. Because our current system is not working and will not last.
Thursday, January 9, 2014
Compulsion to buy
From an interesting CBC documentary on habits, ask yourself 6 questions before you buy something:Why am I here?
How do I feel?
Do I need this?
What if I wait?
How will I pay for it?
Where will I put it?
Brilliant. I know that if I did that every time that I shopped, I would not own even 10% of all the stuff I currently have.
Sunday, November 24, 2013
My kind of XMas
I'm trying to keep XMas stress at bay but can feel it slowly creeping into my psyche. I think the problem is that my behaviour is in conflict with my desires. I'd love to finally simplify by NOT:- entertaining so much
- buying too many presents
- over-planning
- baking/eating so much crap
I' also not living in the present right now, which is something I've decided I must practice in order to find inner-peace. Building up one measly day of the year will surely result in disappointment. And I'm passing this on to my kids as well.
As I unpacked the tree this afternoon, I couldn't help but feel that it was only yesterday when I tore it down. And it's always the same every year. The same gluttony, debt, and more gluttony.
But then there's the kids ... and the happy XMas morning I want to create for them. But what about the consumerism and buyers remorse? And the extra pounds? And all the crap toys that invade what precious empty space I have left in my house? I used to get on my parents case for not putting up their tree after my sister and I moved out. I finally get it! I am there. How nice it would be to just ignore XMas altogether. Or at least tone it WAY down. We don't talk about or do anything to plan for XMas until one week before. Each person gets only ONE gift. We eat a nice meal together and eat ONE decadent dessert and we do ONE outdoor activity as a family. And everything goes back to normal the next day. Now, that's my kind of XMas.
Tuesday, August 7, 2012
Living Free
I experienced a completely surreal moment when my Mom and I were at a cottage this weekend. We were busy getting dinner ready, cracking jokes, reminiscing about the past, just enjoying the buzz of a great summer day when she suddenly commented on how nice it was to stay in a small simple house. I'd been feeling the same way, but hadn't realized it until that moment. It was completely liberating to be free from my things -- my precious things I've built a whole house around. At the cottage the cupboards were bare, the closets empty, the furniture sparse. It was bliss! Being there with my folks reminded me of growing up in a similar small house. It was tiny and I always complained that we could afford to live in a better house. But really, it was all we really needed. Because now we are slaves to our stuff. I hate that I continue to waste my life shopping for, putting away, tidying, looking for and throwing out all my precious stuff. I wish that I didn't NEED things to make me happy. Maybe it's not too late.
Sunday, July 29, 2012
Let the Games Begin!
"I hate the Olympics" is about as popular a sentiment as "I hate Christmas". I get disappointing looks from friends and family when I express my views. "Must you be so cynical D? It's the Olympics after all." Precisely! I resent being made to feel nostalgic for an event that's become a corporate sponsorship orgy masked as a peaceful union of nations all in the name of wholesome sport. Here are some of the reasons I hate the Olympics:
1) hypocrisy - on so many levels
The Olympics is about making money period. -- corporate sponsors, elite athletes, the IOC. The whole world is watching, so let's exploit the crap out of this baby.
Childhood obesity is an epidemic in the US and yet McDonald's and Coke are the leading Olympic sponsors. The irony is unbelievable.
Nationalism is another falsehood. I'm somehow supposed to feel patriotism if an athlete from my country medals. Some of the reasons I am a proud Canadian: public health care, multiculturalism, gun control, the CBC, campaign finance reform, natural resource conservation. Not taking pride in an athlete's performance-enhanced win, in a made up event I know nothing about. Sure I enjoy marvelling at other people's talent and hard work -- it's remarkable what the human body can achieve. It's just SO overblown.
2) wasteful - thousands of public servants have been laid off in the UK, yet there was still enough money to host the world. Surely $14.5 billion can be better spent -- world hunger comes to mind. If governments sponsored sports at the grass roots, more children would get to participate, which would improve public health. Is that not the point of honouring sport?
3) deification of sport - Olympians are not heroes. Humanity is not better off because of their sacrifice. Certainly their talent and dedication should be admired, but again, their achievement is completely inflated. I don't swoon over movie stars, so for me this is no different. Perhaps what's missing is a balance. Let's appreciate humanitarians, philantropists, scientists. I guess it's the deep-seated American-esque desire to idolize that burns me.
4) unfairness - the countries that do the best are those who spend the most money on their athletes -- the best facilities, trainers, programs. The US and China will bring home the most medals so why pretend that this is a fair competition?
5) drug testing - why bother? So much time and money is spent on testing and finding new ways to not get caught. For certain sports, it's a given. There's no place for moral judgments, so just call it a competitive advantage and let anything go.
There are so many other reasons to hate the Olympics (e.g. relocation of the homeless, police state, brand bans, etc.). I'd much rather the IOC be honest about the true force$ behind the Olympics. Hypocrisy is the one thing that really turns my stomach. Sad thing about this, is that I LIKE sports, especially participating in them. Being active, feeling your body move, developing skills and confidence, achieving goals, team work ... all made possible through sport. Too bad the Olympics kills the joy. Here's hoping I can bite my tongue long enough to let my friends and family enjoy the games and just get outside and swim, bike and run.
1) hypocrisy - on so many levels
The Olympics is about making money period. -- corporate sponsors, elite athletes, the IOC. The whole world is watching, so let's exploit the crap out of this baby.
Childhood obesity is an epidemic in the US and yet McDonald's and Coke are the leading Olympic sponsors. The irony is unbelievable.
Nationalism is another falsehood. I'm somehow supposed to feel patriotism if an athlete from my country medals. Some of the reasons I am a proud Canadian: public health care, multiculturalism, gun control, the CBC, campaign finance reform, natural resource conservation. Not taking pride in an athlete's performance-enhanced win, in a made up event I know nothing about. Sure I enjoy marvelling at other people's talent and hard work -- it's remarkable what the human body can achieve. It's just SO overblown.
2) wasteful - thousands of public servants have been laid off in the UK, yet there was still enough money to host the world. Surely $14.5 billion can be better spent -- world hunger comes to mind. If governments sponsored sports at the grass roots, more children would get to participate, which would improve public health. Is that not the point of honouring sport?
3) deification of sport - Olympians are not heroes. Humanity is not better off because of their sacrifice. Certainly their talent and dedication should be admired, but again, their achievement is completely inflated. I don't swoon over movie stars, so for me this is no different. Perhaps what's missing is a balance. Let's appreciate humanitarians, philantropists, scientists. I guess it's the deep-seated American-esque desire to idolize that burns me.
4) unfairness - the countries that do the best are those who spend the most money on their athletes -- the best facilities, trainers, programs. The US and China will bring home the most medals so why pretend that this is a fair competition?
5) drug testing - why bother? So much time and money is spent on testing and finding new ways to not get caught. For certain sports, it's a given. There's no place for moral judgments, so just call it a competitive advantage and let anything go.
There are so many other reasons to hate the Olympics (e.g. relocation of the homeless, police state, brand bans, etc.). I'd much rather the IOC be honest about the true force$ behind the Olympics. Hypocrisy is the one thing that really turns my stomach. Sad thing about this, is that I LIKE sports, especially participating in them. Being active, feeling your body move, developing skills and confidence, achieving goals, team work ... all made possible through sport. Too bad the Olympics kills the joy. Here's hoping I can bite my tongue long enough to let my friends and family enjoy the games and just get outside and swim, bike and run.
Saturday, December 10, 2011
Consumer Guilt

My partner and I binged on XMas shopping for the kids today -- didn't think it was possible to spend 2 HOURS at Toys R U, but there I was and I even had a list. I feel nauseous about how much money we burned for toys that will barely get played with. I feel even more stupid for knowing it and still doing it. What is wrong with me? I don't want to see any disappointment at XMas. I want everyone to get what they wished for. But really, XMas is never like that. Because you rarely know what it is you want and when you get it, it disappoints because it did not live up to your dreams. Yes, this is the same old metaphor of life that I blog about. Thank goodness my partner and I don't exchange gifts. It's tough not getting anything on XMas morning, but getting an outrageous CC bill is far worse. Here's hoping that I'll be able to get off this train and make it a small XMas once and for all.
Wednesday, June 1, 2011
Some parenting notes
I've got to teach my kids about consumerism and the value of money. I think my partner and I do a fairly decent job by living by example. We skip commercials on the PVR, we don't give into our kid's demands for the latest plastic junk fad, we buy used clothing and toys as much as possible, and we have conversations about living within your means and investing in quality. But I think we can do better. Here are a couple other pointers I learned today:
1. Explain to kids that they are being marketed to: the toy companies don't care about you, they only care about your money. I don't think I've ever put it this way before. Makes perfect sense. Once they understand the intent behind the message, they'll be less likely to be sucked in. This one also makes me smile because it's a message I've reminded my partner of many times -- "the stripper that danced for you guys all night, she doesn't want you, just your money."
2. Show them the effects of consumerism: pictures of landfill, basements filled with shit (don't have to go far to witness that one), fat kids who ate too much MacDonald's, etc. Hell why not talk about child labour or unsafe working conditions in overseas sweat shops (k, maybe that's a bit too much, at least for now).
3. Talk about credit cards and the concept of interest. My 7 yr old is strong in math and I know he'll get this, but for some reason I hesitate to talk about the harsh realities of life. But why not be straight about it? Is this why so many ppl are are drowning in debt? Teaching the kids financial literacy is my responsibility. Maybe they are ready for it.
1. Explain to kids that they are being marketed to: the toy companies don't care about you, they only care about your money. I don't think I've ever put it this way before. Makes perfect sense. Once they understand the intent behind the message, they'll be less likely to be sucked in. This one also makes me smile because it's a message I've reminded my partner of many times -- "the stripper that danced for you guys all night, she doesn't want you, just your money."
2. Show them the effects of consumerism: pictures of landfill, basements filled with shit (don't have to go far to witness that one), fat kids who ate too much MacDonald's, etc. Hell why not talk about child labour or unsafe working conditions in overseas sweat shops (k, maybe that's a bit too much, at least for now).
3. Talk about credit cards and the concept of interest. My 7 yr old is strong in math and I know he'll get this, but for some reason I hesitate to talk about the harsh realities of life. But why not be straight about it? Is this why so many ppl are are drowning in debt? Teaching the kids financial literacy is my responsibility. Maybe they are ready for it.
Tuesday, February 15, 2011
I want to burn the house down

I'm having one of those moments where I despise everything that I own. The fucking house is bursting at the seams with all this crap that I don't need. I want to turf it ALL and move into a tiny one bedroom apartment with just the bare necessities. Just the thought of living a simple life free from the burden of THINGS is so liberating .... ahhhhhh .... I WANT THIS dammit!
Apparently it's called downshifting and it's not as difficult as it looks once you commit yourself. There's even a challenge called "The Month of 100 Things" -- try to get rid of 100 things in one month. THAT I can do, starting now.
Apparently it's called downshifting and it's not as difficult as it looks once you commit yourself. There's even a challenge called "The Month of 100 Things" -- try to get rid of 100 things in one month. THAT I can do, starting now.
Monday, November 1, 2010
Awaiting Moderation, eh?

I'm not much of a contributor of knowledge, but at times I want to provide my two cents. I try my best to be polite and to the point, but sometimes my feedback is just not appreciated. Take this posting on what used to be one of my fav blogs about personal finance. It shouldn't shock me that yet another blogger is exploiting her readership by touting merchandise under the guise of advice, but that she's calling her frivolous purchase 'frugal' is enough to make me un-friend her blog.
I will not be shunned. So here are my comments out there in the blog sphere. Take that!
"These are definitely cuter than any grocery store cupcake I’ve ever seen and would probably rival most designer cupcakes that are in vogue right now. However I am surprised that you would advocate buying a single-use seasonal pan for this project. In fact most festive merchandise is a complete waste of money. Just walk through any craft store at this time of year if you want to be sickened by the amount of consumerist plastic garbage being shoved in our faces as essential housewares. I’m sure you could’ve achieved close to the same results by cutting out your cupcakes from a sheet cake. Or how about renting those shaped pans from the Bulk Barn for around $2/day? Think about it -- this pan will be used once and stored for 364 days. I think you’ve advised this before — the best way to be frugal is to just do without."
Sunday, October 10, 2010
Apps

K - I still haven't logged off but I needed to rant just a little bit more while I have a buzz (this after having just posted a promise to not complain for three weeks which is nullified if alcohol is at play btw).
I'm startng to have i-Phone envy thanks to all the buzz about apps I'm exposed to like this one for finding recipes.
I used to love to gnaff at ppl who'd spend upwards of $100 for their cell phones each month to call whom exactly? I have a cell phone and I never use it. I don't text, I just don't feel the need to stay in touch when I am on the road. I like not being reachable. Freedom, baby. I'm never away for more than an hour and I do let the people who need me know where I'll be. It's just fun now and then to be able to pretend that I have no responsibilities.
But now I feel like I'm missing something. Arg! However cool these apps are, it's still not worth the expense, right? Financial independence. I can't forget that. Say no to the toys D. Just say no.
Tuesday, September 28, 2010
I don't care

Sometimes I look in the mirror and don't recognize the person I've become. It's not a bad thing; it's just that the things I used to care so much about no longer matter to me. I'm not talking about my attitude towards my loved ones or my health -- those are still priority #1. It's about little things like decorating. I used to spend endless hours combing through designer mags and watching HGTV looking for inspiring ideas to make my house a home. Today, I COULDN'T CARE LESS. It is a complete waste of time and money. The house looks fine as it is -- bare.
I have become my mother, *sigh*. I remember being really pissed with my mom for having the same furniture as when she and my dad got married, for refusing to make holes in the wall by hanging art and for leaving the house boring beige. I couldn't understand why she didn't care! Well now I do. It's a rat race. Once you start, you can't stop. You end up with rooms full of furniture that you trip over on a daily basis and shelves full of chotsky's that you have to dust or repair all the time. It also fails to satisfy. The temporary high from a room nicely decorated loses it's appeal within days (yes, it's always about the Power of Now). In fact, if you're like me, it'll even start to piss you off -- why the fuck did I paint this room ORANGE?! It's too BRIGHT dammit! We could have taken a real vacation for what I just spent on new linens, frig! KIDS! STOP CLIMBING ON THAT EXPENSIVE TABLE!! etc, etc.
We all know know people who live for decorating -- they invest hundreds of hours painting elaborate faux finishes, scour antique markets for treasured nick knacks, and sew their own decorative throw pillows and draperies. It's quite impressive and at the same time heart breaking. I just want to shout "None of those things make a happy home lady!" That used to be me. If I could only get back all those hours I spent shopping at Home Sense and planning my designer projects in exchange for quality time spent playing with my kids or even exercising. Those are what matter to me now.
So where is this coming from? Have I matured, or just given up on life? My family thinks I'm depressed and perhaps they are partly right. But maybe I'm just finally learning how to be me. Endless conversations with my Mommy friends about renovations and decorating projects made me feel like I needed to follow the trend. Now I'm just more comfortable with the status quo. I mean, I haven't given up completely -- I still take pride in a neat and clean house. It's just that the decorating (along with the gourmet cooking) is no longer important. And that's OK.
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