Sunday, September 23, 2012
The final testament
Just finished another great book by James Frey. Yes, he's controversial and his talent is a bit over-blown, but this is a profound book. At least it was for me. I'm feeling really down lately and although Frey told the stories of the saddest, poorest and most hopeless of urban America, the message of love made me want to cry for joy. I realize that it's cliché to say that love is the answer. I keep forgetting that it's not just a precusor to marriage. You have to feel it everyday if you really want happiness. Loving yourself, loving others, loving life. In Frey's book the Messiah is reborn and spends his time in NYC transforming people's lives with love -- a warm hug, a sincere conversation, a gentle kiss, and always an "I love you". God is love was the message. Love each other. Nothing is more powerful than the love of another human being. So spend your life loving and giving as much as you can. This is God. I think I'm going to cry again. Too often we think we have love, but then it quickly dies and we're left chasing things that don't make us happy or feel good instead of just making love. I realize this is sounding like a Hippie Manifesto. But think about how great it feels to be loved and to love. And yet those moments are few and far between. When you have love in your heart, you have compassion for others, differences melt away, you accept people as they are and life is bliss.
I have to return this book to the library, but wanted to note some of the other great messages:
Life is about living simply, helping others and feeling everything you can feel. It's not about the accumulation of wealth and possessions. It's about the accumulation of friends. The more you have, the more you want. The more complicated your life is, the more miserable you are. The more you work, the less you live.
God is infinity. Most of us can't understand how big infinity is.
Focusing on life after death causes you to forsake life.
Religion is man's greatest con. If I claim to have a direct relationship with and a unique understanding of God and I claim that he created everything and knows everything and controls your fate including your destiny after death, I can use that power to make you live as I want you to live, including being a slave.
Religions and governments are instruments of greed and power. They exist to exploit and control humanity and the earth's resources.
These ideas are not new, but it was refreshing to read. I feel at my best when my love tank is full. It's so much easier to deal with D and the kids. I can see more clearly. The glass is half full. I love that feeling. And I know it can last. My friend Tara talks about acting out of love. She's very aware of where her actions come from and tries hard to make sure they come from a place of love. This makes a lot of sense to me. I'm going to think about and try to feel love everyday, even if I don't get it back. I know if feels equally good to be kind and loving to someone else.